great connection!

I have just heard from a great friend of mine..who connected me to learning the strength I  have inside of me.   After meeting her in in Fiji,  and learning how to teach myself the strength I have , and believing it, I treasure her friendship…You will learn what I mean of this in my last chapter in my book!    I have gratefully met a ton of fantastic people from all over the world in Fiji….

Thanks Robin and Jack!

 

 

Monday morning

Always know that you can do what your mind is talking to you about!!!

our minds are the ones who are telling us what to think and what to do?…we have to decide if it is good or bad.   Being friends with your mind will help.  You can become friends by being calm, and being happy within yourself.   Being happy within yourself is when you love yourself!!!

And  you have every right to love yourself.  You are so worth it!    DO NOT listen to anyone else who either is not kind to you, or speaks about you….this means they unhappy people ….

always love yourself first, and you can accomplish anything you want, because you will be at peace with yourself, and can easily accomplish your goals for today.   Don’t take more than one day at a time.!!,

Love yourself!!!  It is amazing!!!

 

 

Sunday morning

Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take,

Life is measured by the amount of moments that take your breath away!!!

be thankful for being up and alive today!!!  The simplest things can make your day special!! We just have to recognize them……

 

 

chapter 3

chapter 3 was a little more intense that I thought…It was so much fun at times, like when I would smoke cigars after I had a couple of cocktails…!!!   we were crazy!!!     then it got a little more intense when my challenges were challenging me again.

I knew then that I wanted to beat them, but couldn’t find the damn way to win…

After looking and investigating, I knew I would find it.   And I did!!!   Learned to trust myself…no matter how much people are bothering you….or how much life can be a pain the butt!!!

Always follow yourself, your thoughts, and your future…

I had always remembered that one lady telling me I would go far….It helped me to BELIEVE!!!

thoughts and reactions

sometimes, we just don’t believe in ourselves.   I have done that for years, but I have finally realized that we do have the power, and we do have to have faith in ourselves and our minds….our minds can play so many games with us.

So next time you want to do something, and you question yourself, think of what you are wanting to do, make sure it is correct to do, and follow thru with your confidence and your inner peace.

Inner peace is what will tell you if you are right or wrong..

As I have said, Believe in Yourself, but Love yourself even more!!!

Fear

We all use four letter words…correct?

We all know them, they have different meanings and  they all have a certain time to use them, or maybe not!!    Sometimes it just feels that they belong in the situation…

There is one other four letter word that has more meaning and  more control  in our lives than we realize

That four letter word???

FEAR!

To defeat this word, which is a “mental action” …..the first thing to do is   to believe in yourself,  believe in your positive thoughts, and beat that fear!!!

It can be difficult at times but….we can all do it…we think of too many thing in our head at the time…and that though won’t leave you….

Remember  this abbreviation of Fear

F.    FALSE

E.    EVIDENCE

A.     APPEARING

R.      REAL

When we have a fear, this may make it easier to get over that “four letter word”

 

 

 

start your day with this thought

To live your life without expectations,
without the need for specific results,
that is freedom.

 

 

I have learned that you don’t have to expect anything this day….If you are having a bad day, take a couple hours at a time, when done with those two hours,  attack the next two….I learned after my brain surgery, this makes it much easier to handle the day.   You learn to live withing yourself.

Believe in yourself!

I have finished chapter three.

Chapter three is covering more than I thought it would….it is introducing when I was 25, and moved in to my new apartment.I was having so much fun, dealt with life the way I felt it would be, and then started to

deal with my condition as it  was getting more challenging.    but still did as much as I could to have fun in my life…

Dont let anything stop you..be comfortable in your own “bubble”.   This will protect you a little bit, still letting other people and  activities  in with you, with a little protection…..Wear that Bubble!!!!